THE PARABLE OF THE LOVING FATHER
#379 THE PARABLE OF THE LOVING FATHER
Scripture Luke 15:11-32 NIV Orig. 6/30/63 (10/81)
Rewr. 8/6/87
Passage: 11 Jesus continued: “There was a man who had two sons. 12 The younger one said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them. 13 “Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living. 14 After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. 15 So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. 16 He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything. 17 “When he came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! 18 I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ 20 So he got up and went to his father. “But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. 21 “The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ 22 “But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. 23 Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate. 24 For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate. 25 “Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. 27 ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’ 28 “The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. 29 But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. 30 But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ 31 “‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. 32 But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”
Purpose: In a series on the New Testament parables, here sharing with my people on the theme of human intemperance beset by God’s great love.
Keywords: Disobedience Forgiveness Revival Self-righteousness Sin
Timeline/Series: Parable
Introduction
Once upon a time there were two young children who went to spend the summer with their grandparents. Their names were Billy and Sally. They lived most of the year in the city, and a few weeks on their grandparents’ farm in the summer was a wonderful experience for them.
Billy, like many little boys, was exceedingly curious. He enjoyed all the different things, and animals that he encountered. One day Grandfather had some work to do in the hayloft and it was too hot for Billy to help. He was free to roam. He picked up his slingshot and went out to play hunter. Out beyond the barn, almost out of sight of the house, Billy had armed his weapon and had it ready. Suddenly, Grandmother’s pet duck waddled around the corner of the barn. Without so much as a flinch, Billy let fly his artillery. His aim usually wasn’t very good, but this time he was right on the mark. The duck lay dead. He looked to see if anyone was in sight. Then, scared though he was, he quickly buried the duck back of the barn. That night at supper he couldn’t eat. His grandmother asked if he was sick. After supper he and Sally went to wash dishes. She said she wasn’t going to help, and if he complained she’d tell about the duck.
You can imagine what the next week was like. Billy was miserable. Finally, one afternoon Billy went to his grandmother’s sewing room. He stood around, picked up trinkets in which he had no interest. Shuffled from one foot to the other. “Billy, if you need to know it, I love you.” Then came the flood of guilt and confession. “Billy, I was sitting here by the window and saw the whole thing. I wondered how long you would endure this bondage to Sally before you came to me.”
I. First, Parables are Often Unique in Their Setting. We can back up a couple of chapters. Luke 13:22. “. . . Jesus went through the towns and villages . . . as he made his way to Jerusalem.” Jesus is clearly conscious of the precious commodity of his dwindling days. Luke 17:11 “Now on his way to Jerusalem”—his last.
More directly, the scribes and Pharisees were murmuring about his friendship with sinners. Luke 15:2 “[They] muttered, ‘This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.’” Aren’t you glad Jesus is like this? You know where we would be otherwise.
Thus Jesus shares 3 parables of lost possessions. There is a lost sheep (15:3). It doesn’t will to be lost. It just wanders away. The shepherd seeks it until it is found. It is lost! It is sought! It is found! The finder rejoices.
There is a lost coin (15:8). It has no capacity to lose itself, or to understand its lostness. The one discovering it lost, holds other things incidental until it is found. It is lost! It is sought! It is found! The finder rejoices.
There is a lost son. He is lost, not because he wandered off, or was impassively misplaced, but because he chose to leave, to separate himself. He was just as lost! He was sought! He was restored! His return causes joy for his father.
The elder brother does not joy in return. Nor does he find joy in his father’s joy.
II. Next, We View the Lost Son As a Principal Character in Our Story. V11: “A certain man had two sons, and the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.” It is noted that Jesus does not call this young man a prodigal. Keep in mind the religious bigots listening. They are vindictive of Jesus’ openness to sinners. We can measure both sons and their sin. The younger was callous and rebellious; the older was censorious, retaliatory.
We can learn that there are good things about this young man. He is his own person. He is ready to strike out on his own. But he handles it poorly. His immaturity shows he gives his father no chance to counsel him. He is seeking only what is rightfully his. Deuteronomy 21:17 The right of the firstborn is a double portion. He seems to be a man of simplicity and responsibility. He discovers his mistakes, and blames himself. He knows his best chance is starting over. At home? Enslaved?
The Bible describes three kinds of enslavement: Bondsmen—respected family extensions; servant—subordinate but with status; hired servants—temporarily indentured. The younger son is a man to whom repentance is not an unreasonable alternative. V.17 “And when he came to himself, he said . . . I will go . . . and say . . . Father, I have sinned.”
Don’t make the mistake of accusing him as an unthankful delinquent. There is a mind sustained by childhood teachings. There is a heart with gratitude for a loving father.
There are interesting interpretations. Augustine: the “far country” represents the forgetfulness of God. “Came to himself” suggests restoration from madness. Paul’s description in Ephesians 4:18, “They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance . . . in them due to the hardening of their hearts.”
III. Then, We Must Consider the Older Brother Just as Lost in His Condescending Attitude. V28 “The older brother became angry and refused to go in.” The elder brother stands in the parable for the hardhearted Pharisees who necessitated its message. They did not share Christ’s concern for sinners. We must consider our own attitudes. As the younger was riddled by an uneasy conscience, this one purported to be without fault. V29: “I never disobeyed your command.” He was unforgiving. One-third of the estate has been lost. His ledger-book mentality demands censure. Even brotherhood is too high a price for acquittal. Add to his other wrongs that of betraying his father’s joy. Father: “this thy brother.” Son: “This thy son.”
The theologian George Buttrick wrote: “The far country is measured in motives rather than miles.”
Finally, the parable shows no evidence of repentance for the elder brother. Some suggest that it is a true story.
IV. The Parable Remains Forever that of Loving Father. V22 “But the Father said to his servants, bring forth the best robe and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand and shoes on his feet, and bring hither the fatted calf and kill it; and let us eat and be merry: for this my son was dead, and is alive again; was lost, and is found.”
There were some things that the father could do. The robe, best or first, showed honor and restoration. The ring established the relationship and oneness (Wedding Ring, Class Ring, Super Bowl Ring). The shoes, not worn by the lowest servants, were provisioned to sons.
There were other things, however, that the father could not do. He could not erase the wrong done: Billy could not revive the pet duck. He could not promise a second part of the estate.
He depicts all the characteristics of the heavenly Father. He waits patiently and lovingly. He recognizes the repentant pilgrim. He goes out to meet the weary son. He interrupts the confession. God is no stickler for law for law’s sake.
A totally new picture of God emerges. We saw the shepherd search for the lost sheep. We watched as the homemaker searched for the lost coin. We sense that the father is brooding for his lost son. God’s concern for the lost is the brooding concern for what is of eminent worth.
Conclusion
I have had recent occasion to reconsider the different attitudes allowed my Dad and myself in regard to God as Father. When he was a lad, his dad deserted them. He tried to run the tiny farm, but in failure, lost the only holding they had. He has lived out his life without owning property: fearful of loss. But the greatest disparity is that he knew no human counterpart to depict for him the true picture of God as one of zealous good will.